realizing the life

Almost everyone want to relax, but very few are successful. When someone
asks "what to do to relax myself". Then this question itself becomes the
barrier to relaxation.
If one try to do something, so that he can relax, he'll never succeed. There is
no "doing" to relax, just "let go" and you'll be in relaxation in the next moment.

Everyone wants to be at the top,rank 1 in every field, there are lots of
expectation from self and for self life, how can one relax when one's head
is full of expectations !!!
Health,money,reputation......."let go"

The only key to get relaxed is:
Let things be as they are !!!
One may do something to change "things" but do not worry if one don't succeed.
And if one "let go" for even few moments, will feel immense energy arising in
oneself.